Subject: [Djembe-L] Re: Drumcircle Etiquette? From: "candida wise" Date: Mon, 18 Dec 2006 15:04:18 -0600
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I am getting in on the end of this conversation and I am not sure what kind of culture has been established in this circle. I think when newcomers attend a circle it is up to the facilitator to always begin with everything from the beginning, middle and end before the first beat begins. I open my circles with a few expectations then I invite others to share with what their expectations because the last thing that I want to be seen as is a DIC-tator if you know what I mean. Everyone is there to share with one another and it only takes one or two people to scare everyone else off. My rule is break time is exactly that BREAK TIME!!! I have found that during break time is when people use others instruments without asking and it creates problems, and besides your sensory system needs that break. It is just best if you begin the circle with the middle and end in mind to avoid any problems. Candida WiseDisclaimer: **All posts have been reviewed for content by the Moderators of Djembe-L. Approval of a post does not indicate endorsement by the Moderators of any opinion, product, or service offered.** <**>NEW FEATURE: Djembe-L Search Engine http://djembelfaq.drums.org/site_search.htm <**> <>Visit our Djembe-L FAQ, companion website to our Djembe-L listserv: http://djembelfaq.drums.org<> <>DJEMBE-L ARCHIVES http://launch.groups.yahoo.com/group/djembe-l/messages<> rev. 10/05 Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/djembe-l/ <*> Your email settings: Individual Email | Traditional <*> To change settings online go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/djembe-l/join (Yahoo! ID required) <*> To change settings via email: mailto:djembe-l-digest@yahoogroups.com mailto:djembe-l-fullfeatured@yahoogroups.com <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: djembe-l-unsubscribe@yahoogroups.com <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/-- No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG Free Edition. Version: 7.5.432 / Virus Database: 268.15.25/593 - Release Date: 12/19/2006 1:17 PMLiterary and Graphical Freeware: Not for Commercial Use.
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